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She says that guys in this age group are growing increasingly bitter—particularly guys "who find the young women they might have hoped to hang out with entitled, dishonest, self-involved, slutty, manipulative, shallow, controlling—and did I mention gold-digging? I think we're all confused about what we think our roles are and what we want from the opposite sex.If your boyfriend is critical or contemptuous of other people, be very aware that you have a short shelf life before you become those other people." data-reactid="22"1. Not all emotionally abusive men will show you a lack of respect from Day 1.But how do they behave toward other people and speak about them?“Men HATE and FEAR confident women.” “Men only want beauty queens.” “All men want is sex,” (this from a 60-year-old woman,) “Women just want a meal-ticket,” “Women like to ridicule men and make them feel small.” “I have been internet dating for 8 years. There are decent men and women who behave decently.Many of the people we know seem to fit comfortably in partnerships that do not require one person to be berated or belittled by the other.If your boyfriend is critical or contemptuous of other people, be very aware that you have a short shelf life before you become those other people.2.He always tells incredible hard luck stories about his past." She recently broke it down for us on The Daily Beast…Many women want to be equal in the boardroom and on the treadmill, but when it comes to dating, they want to date (or they want the option to date) old-fashioned gentlemen who will open doors and pay for dinner. And that confusion definitely does not improve communication.But here is someone she quoted from the Seattle Post- Intelligencer who had no problem putting it explicitly:"Sorry ladies.Most likely when a guy first comes a-wooing, he won’t be carrying his, “I’m an emotionally abusive man” placard. Here are the tell tale signs that he is an emotionally abusive man:1. He shows a lack of respect.Not all emotionally abusive men will show you a lack of respect from Day 1.